As drivers, we need to be more helpful
In a current world of negatives, we must keep looking for the positives. Positive stories help bring our mood up and can create an attitude toward the day which can become more positive. Too many negatives can lead to depression and an angry attitude, especially while driving. I was brought up to help people when I see the need. I’ve passed on that trait to my kids and we tend to do it without blinking an eye.
Over the years, I can’t tell you how many vehicles I’ve helped push out of a snowbank, or how many people I’ve helped boost a dead battery or change a flat tire for someone. These actions take very little of my time but they help me feel good and helps the recipient feel good as well. Turning a blind eye was never something I was taught.
Recently while driving through the city I noticed a vehicle passing that had a burned-out brake light. I made the effort to catch up to them and when we stopped again at a red light, I rolled my window down and yelled to tell the driver. He seemed to be pleased I had let them know as they smiled and waved thank you. I caught up to them again at another red light and happened to glance over at them again and they waved again. I’m pretty sure they appreciated my act of niceness instead of ignoring it and minding my own business.
While in a parking lot recently, I noticed a vehicle entering it and swinging into a parking space. I waited for the
driver to exit the vehicle and told them I noticed the front passenger tire very low on inflation. He went around to the tire and agreed and said thanks. As he walked away, he again turned around and gave me a thumbs up sign. Another person happy that someone cared enough to say something.
I was at a gas station recently when the person opposite me placed their gas cap on top of the pump as they filled up. Continuing what I was doing, I noticed when they were finished, they got into their vehicle to drive away, but the gas cap was still on top of the pump. I quickly got their attention to let them know. The driver was very appreciative of my few seconds of actions. I know I would.
Taking those few seconds to inform fellow road users of something they never noticed is time well spent. I lost nothing but perhaps those few seconds may have inspired those I spoke to the opportunity to do the same thing for someone else. Sometimes, it’s only a few seconds of help that can make someone’s day. And if it makes their day, chances are it will make your day too. I like to think we’re on the same team.
**Have a quick listen to this short podcast episode as helping other road users is discussed!